Kimberly Fey was born on June 14, 1969, in the United States. While she has maintained a largely private life, some reports suggest that she grew up in a modest household: her father worked as a taxi driver and her mother as a supermarket cashier.
From a young age, Kimberly was drawn to the world of music. She sang in school plays and experimented with different musical expressions, eventually developing a strong interest in sound engineering.
Career: From Sound Engineering to Real Estate
Music and Engineering
Kimberly’s professional life began in the music industry, not in front of the microphone, but behind the scenes. She became a recording/sound engineer — a role that allowed her to shape and refine music, rather than just perform it.
One of her most notable early associations was with Marky Mark and the Funky Bunch, the hip-hop group led by Mark Wahlberg. It was through this work that she eventually met Donnie Wahlberg (Mark’s brother), who would later become her husband.
Transition to Real Estate
After her marriage and raising her children, Kimberly transitioned into a completely different field: real estate. She relocated to California and obtained her real estate license, working as a realtor.
This shift allowed her to build a new career on her own terms, outside the constant spotlight of the entertainment world.
Personal Life
Relationship with Donnie Wahlberg
Kimberly Fey and Donnie Wahlberg had a long and complex relationship. According to multiple sources, they began dating in the early 1990s, around the time Kimberly was working with Marky Mark & the Funky Bunch. Their relationship deepened, and they welcomed their first son, Xavier Alexander, on March 4, 1993.
They married on August 20, 1999 in a private ceremony. Their second son, Elijah Hendrix Wahlberg, was born on August 20, 2001, coinciding with their anniversary.
Marriage Breakdown and Divorce
After nearly a decade together, Kimberly and Donnie filed for divorce. They officially filed on August 13, 2008, citing “irreconcilable differences.” Their divorce was later finalized, with some sources stating it was completed in 2010.
Kimberly sought and was reportedly granted sole physical custody of their two sons, while Donnie maintained visitation rights. During the divorce, she also requested spousal support and payment of her attorney’s fees.
There were rumors and media speculation around the reasons for their split, including claims of Donnie’s infidelity (notably linked to model Michelle Tomlinson), though not all reports are confirmed.
Life After Divorce
After the divorce, Kimberly Fey intentionally stepped back from public life. She focused on raising her sons, and pursued her real estate career in California. Despite being a former celebrity spouse, she keeps a low profile and is not very active on social media.
Reports say she and Donnie maintained a cordial co-parenting relationship.
Personality & Interests
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She is described as calm, private, and reserved, preferring stability and her family over fame.
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Her hobbies reportedly include traveling, and she enjoys exploring different places around the U.S. and abroad.
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She’s also said to be an animal lover, having volunteered at animal shelters in her youth.
Legacy and Public Perception
Kimberly Fey is often defined in public discourse by her past marriage to Donnie Wahlberg, but that only tells part of her story. Her professional work as a sound engineer — especially in a male-dominated field — and her successful career shift into real estate highlight her versatility and resilience.
Unlike many celebrity ex-spouses, she has avoided scandal and sensationalism, preferring a private and grounded life. Her journey reflects both the challenges and freedoms of stepping out of the spotlight on one’s own terms.
